don't cry
and do not be upset
cos if you depend on others' to validate your own self worth
you are so going to be disappointed very often
people have opinions about us all the time
do all people who get promotions deserve it?
do all who don't, deserve to be bypassed?
labelling is not nice - but that's how the world is
opinions are sometimes biased, unfair or plain inaccurate
if you think others have assessed you wrongly, u have a few options
1 cry and feel sorry for yourself (not recommended)
2 sulk and never speak to the person again(not recommended because you are damaging yourself in the process)
3 -itch and -itch about it to anyone who listens and malign the other person(not recommended - you are spreading negativity)
4 take it in your stride and prove them wrong (recommended - i do not advocate revenge - but this is the best opportunity to prove them wrong)
just examine every comment
if there is some truth to it, rectify the problem
if it's wrong, well ...you know what to do
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